Boundaries with loved ones (Holiday Edition)
The holidays + family time come with their own unique stressors + vulnerability to reverting back to older versions of ourselves....
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Dr Cat Meyer
Nov 24, 20214 min read
Our Relationship to Anger Affects our Sensual Pleasure
This week I was a woman who was ANGRY. I was at Dallas Fort Worth airport in transit from NYC. As I was on the tram to take me to a...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Oct 27, 20211 min read
Halloween
The one holiday that is socially “appropriate” to dress like a slutty nurse or nun. An indication as to how many of us are harboring...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Sep 15, 20212 min read
Desire precedes trust
Desire precedes trust. Which is why the beginning stages of love can be confusing. We might fill our minds with fantasies “He’s the One!”...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Sep 3, 20212 min read
Ghosting
Clients ask me whether ceasing to continue a conversation that was started on Bumble after a few texts is wrong or is considered...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Aug 16, 20213 min read
Emotional Dumping versus Venting
Sometimes in my office, I have clients who apologize for unloading a lot of heavy emotions + experiences from their last week--or...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Aug 3, 20214 min read
Deepening of intimacy with a partner
For some, the deepening of intimacy with a partner can be a boner killer. Literally. Upon first meeting, the sexual desire + chemistry...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Jul 8, 20215 min read
When you live a love life less traditional...
Pride: In being our full spectrum self--however that manifests + continues to evolve. I’ve been contemplating on the process of “coming...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Apr 13, 20212 min read
LOVE. Do they have a limited capacity for meeting you in intimacy?
We all have a different volume of love that we speak + different capacity for depth in intimacy. Some of us are highly expressive + open,...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Oct 24, 20203 min read
LOVE. Polarity through a Trauma-Informed Lens. (Part 4)
Oftentimes when people talk about polarity, they refer to the energetic poles of ‘masculine’ + ‘feminine’. Not gender specific, but...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Oct 22, 20202 min read
LOVE. Balancing Sexual Polarity with Emotional Connection for Sustainability
Part 3 of 3 LOVE. Emotional Connection. We talked about the power of polarity in sexual attraction. And this would not sustain a strong...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Oct 22, 20202 min read
SEX. How Can We Create Sexual Chemistry without a Trauma Bond?
Part 2 of 3 How to Polarize: Remember yesterday’s post where I talked about different types of polarity? Here we talk about how you can...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Oct 22, 20202 min read
SEX. What is Sexual Polarity?
SEX. Sexual polarity. The experience of magnets as two people embody opposite ends to attract one another. Masculine + Feminine Dark +...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Aug 5, 20203 min read
LOVE. Fear of Intimacy + Our Defense Mechanisms to Love
Are you preventing love from coming in? Discover the patterns you may be falling into.
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Dr Cat Meyer
Jun 25, 20202 min read
SEX. So Last Night was HOT. Digital Seduction: Tantra
So Saturday night got really hot… We held our final class of the 3 part series Digital Seduction + it was probably my favorite. Here we...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Jun 15, 20202 min read
SEX. Let's Talk About That Night...Edge
It was our second class of the Digital Seduction series + we all had the chance to lean into our edges a bit + try something on. Held...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Jun 15, 20202 min read
LOVE. To Grow, We Must Lean into Risk
Growth = Awareness + Risk Taking If we have the awareness of ourselves, but don’t take any risks, Then it simply remains a theory in our...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Jun 15, 20202 min read
SEX. About that night...Digital Seduction: Touch
It was the first night of our Digital Seduction: Touch, couples digital immersive experience. Now, I’ve done a workshops live + I see a...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Jun 3, 20202 min read
LOVE. How Our Perceived 'Certainty' Around Racism Is Contributing to the Problem
“I know.” Certainty is the death of growth. For if we are certain, then there’s nowhere else to go. “I know” is a sneaky little bugger,...
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Dr Cat Meyer
Mar 30, 20202 min read
LOVE. Open Loops in Conversation
COMMUNICATION. Open loops—when we are left with questions still about a particular event, person, perspective. The output of energy that...
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