EPS 61: Overcoming Fear in Dating for Men, the Impact of Technology on Connection, and the ‘Nice Guy’ Syndrome with Robert Kandell

EPS 61: Overcoming Fear in Dating for Men, the Impact of Technology on Connection, and the ‘Nice Guy’ Syndrome with Robert Kandell

Hey lovers and warriors,

Welcome to episode 61!

With so many events and change to our social climate, how is this impacting our men in the dating and relationship world? Robert Kandell is here to lay out a powerful image of what he’s seeing impacting men’s ability to connect with themselves, the powerful modern woman, and the true tactics to leading a love life more optimally. 

In this episode you’ll hear about:

  • Social pressures and their impact on men in the dating world
  • Affects of the #MeToo movement on dating and sex 
  • The ‘nice-guy’ syndrome and how this can be far from what’s internally authentic
  • How to utilize your ego as a teacher rather than a foe to help evolve 
  • The importance of communication with our partners and tips on how to be able to hold them 
  • How fear of rejection and the scarcity mindsets are impacting our dating lives and relationships
  • Why seduction tactics don’t really work
  • How technology has impacted our way of connection
  • Steps to taking charge of your own life and live life more optimally
  • Struggles with receiving and how to shift that
  • ‘FREEDOM’ as a desired characteristic, yet sabotaging it at the same time

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Robert Kandell is an interpersonal communication expert, speaker, podcaster and the author of the bestselling book, unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. Since 2002, Robert’s mission has been to help people find themselves and use their internal power to live their best lives. He has helped thousands of students up-level their communication, leading them to live more balanced, energized, connected and purposeful lives.
Robert is a veteran of many worlds, having moved seamlessly from corporate america and the startup world, to becoming an authority in the personal development sphere, to building an international 8-figure business and authoring a bestselling book. 
He is the host of the podcast, Tuff Love, where he puts his compassionate, hard-hitting insight to work helping people move forward in their lives with clarity. He has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”. His style is challenging, fraternal, highly rewarding, and definitely not for the faint-hearted.
You can find out more about him at  https://www.robertkandell.com

Check out his book unHidden: A book for men and those confused by them here! 


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